I have written anything for awhile. I really tried Friday, but work got in the way. Sometime work needs to come first.
Update on the questions I had...
I know what a Puncher Shop is. It is not to hire someone to PUNCH another person. Nitesh, the Hitman, told me the shop fixes the flat tires. Now I understand why there are tires nailed to the trees and poles around the shop. Why not Tire Shop? Everything has come together.
The next question was answered about the wires hanging so low to the ground. Nitesh, the Hitman, said the low hanging wires are internet wires. I asked why the wires are not pulled tight to keep them out of the way of the people walking and traffic. He did not know why the wires are not higher.
After the second week in Bangalore, I am able to go on OLA to get a taxi, learning you have no control of traffic so being late to the office is part of life here, and eating a lot of vegetarian dishes not always my choice.
Today I was thinking about all the pillars bisecting the crowded Bangalore roads. The first day I was told the project of building the Metro Trains should be done by 2019. When I am talking to everyone else other than the first taxi driver, they laugh when I said 2019. Depending on the politicians maybe the tracks and stations will be completed by 2023. It reminded me of the "Big Dig" in Boston. The number of years and all the money dumped into the project and mismanagement.
In front of the Keys Hotel the rise of the pillars have begun. There are a few completed. There is concrete platform on some of them. This will be used to lay the tracks for the Metro. There is construction day and night 7 days a week. The roads are even worse. My fear is once the project is completed, there will be move accidents because the pillars in the middle. The vehicles will try to keep moving forward and hit the pillars. There are reflectors on the pillars, but everyone is in a rush.
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| Pillars appear overnight in the middle of the roads |
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| It just ENDS! |
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| The workers on top of the platform |
On Saturday, I went to Venessa's (Interface Support Tech) family home. Her parents, brother, sister and her aunt who is a religious Sister were wonderful. Mercy (her Mom) is a great cook. She prepared mutton and chicken. There were mango chutney, something with yogurt (not my favorite but I tried it), cabbage (cooked). Everything was delicious. We talked a lot except for her brother Rahul (?). He is very quiet. He is in his first year in medical college. Her sister, Theresa is in her third year in engineering college. Her father is retired and her mother is a loan officer at the state bank. Theresa took some pictures. I will ask Venessa to send them to me. They have a beautiful home closer to the airport. There are metro pillars going up over there as well. I had a wonderful time talking about US politics (a very popular topic here), children (theirs and mine) and about their farmland in Kerala. Mercy gave me a bag of fresh peppercorns from their farm. Her dad, mom and aunt (the Sister) drove me back to the hotel. It was a great night.
Yesterday, I attended Mass at Our Lady of Lourdes. I love attending Mass here. I can feel the love of God with parishioners. The music is beautiful. There are so many young people attending Mass. I am getting used to the priest and some of the comments he says about women. He is very old fashion. Some of his thoughts are back from the 1950s and 1960s. Women should be attentive to her husband and cook and clean. I like how he asks for everyone to volunteer. He does not want to pay for a job if the people of the church can come and do it. There were no sweets sold today. I took the taxi. After Mass I watched/listened to the Red Sox game. They won the 4 game of the World Series. Early this morning, I tried to stay up to hear them win the World Series. Sleep won out. Back to the priest...His homilies are very inspiring.
Where did I go yesterday???? I went back to the Phoenix Marketcity Mall. This time I knew what I wanted to buy. I had a great time shopping. Yes - I said I had a great time shopping. I don't like to shop for me. I was shopping for Manny, Max and Erika. I love buying for others. The exchange is so great. Yesterday it was $1 US to 71 rupees. I am standing at the cashier thinking all the clothes and other items I am purchasing is so inexpensive compared to the US. I will try to get back there one more time to purchase a few other items Manny would like.
What bothers me about the Mall! People will walk 5 wide so no one can get around them. They will not move or give any room. The other is people standing in a large group in the walkway. Why can't they move to one side. NO! They stand there. I have taken to go through the middle of the group. I bet they are thinking what a rude white woman. I have no way of getting around them, so the middle is the most direct route. The mall is always busy unlike the malls in the Boston area. There are more than stores selling watches than I ever saw. It is a big thing here. These places have been busy each time I have gone to the mall. Krispy Kreme is big in Bangalore. There are many restaurants (Chili's, California Pizza Kitchen, Pizza Hut, Domino's, Burger King). Many are American restaurants. Chili's serves buffalo, beef and pork as well as chicken. I was shocked. I know in Mumbai beef is banned.
The taxi situation is getting easier for me. I am able to schedule a mini taxi now. Mini taxis are cheap. There is a single place for taxis drop off and pick up at the mall. I was not choosing the type of payment before searching for a taxi on the OLA app. I learned I need to declare the type of payment, then search. It is quick and easy. I am enjoying the opportunity to go out and see places around Whitefield area without being dependent on others. I do miss driving my own car. I do not think I would ever drive around this area. There are too many vehicles (motorized and not) and people coming and going everywhere and the rules of the road is there is NO RULES. There is no rhyme or reason.
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| Sonam and me in the Cafe |
Later in the evening I went to the Keys Hotel Cafe. It would be the last time I would see some of the staff in the Cafe because I am leaving on Saturday morning. They are wonderful. Sonam is a beautiful young woman who loves her job. She is always smiling and makes sure all patrons are happy. Amit will order for me. He knows what I like and don't like. I trust his opinion about the food. Kishore, Ganesh, Uma and the other staff are always there for my black coffee and any questions. I eat very slow and I will sit there for up to 1 hour relaxing. I see others coming in and eating quickly and leaving. At the beginning of my stay they thought I did not like the food because I eat so little at one sitting. I explained to them I love the food. The taste of the spices and the variety. I do not want to offend anyone. The staff in most restaurants worry I don't like the food because most of it is boxed for me to bring home. This is normal. I will miss them all. They spoiled me during my stay. If you come to Bangalore, come to the Keys Hotel to the Cafe for delicious food and wonderful atmosphere because of the staff. I cannot remember all of the staff, but they are all so great!
This is the last week in Bangalore! It has gone so quickly. I had to exchange $20 US for more rupees. I need money for little things. The hotel converts money. This is great. Every morning I come back from the office and there is always someone at the desk to greet me. Every afternoon I come to the lobby and all of the staff are there smiling. It is wonderful to have people around you who enjoy life. It is better to be happy instead of being miserable. Your happiness will be passed onto the next person.
I have not had to do my own laundry for the past 2 weeks. I put the clothes in a bag and fill out a form and give it to the front desk. A day later my clothes come back cleaned and folded. I could deal with this at home. My bed is made every day. Sharanappa does a great job cleaning my room. He is always smiling. By the time I come back from eating lunch (breakfast for me) he has begun cleaning my room. He made a comment that I am very neat. I keep everything is its place. We will talk about anything. I enjoy his visits. He is creates towel art for me. Maybe he does for others but I want to think he does for me only.
I finally am tired of Romedy TV. There are so many movies created but they keep showing the same ones over and over and over again. I am streaming WKLB Boston County radio station. The first song played when it started to stream was
Humble and Kind by Tim McGraw. What a perfect song! There is no such thing of coincidence. This song always brings memories of the family and friends which have passed away, the friends and family I have with me now and the ones to come. I am so grateful for everything. God gives you what you can handle. The tough thing is to accept it good or bad and still be happy. Not everything is easy and happy. The next song which played was
Better Boat by Kenny Chesney. It brings back memories of my childhood with my grandparents and family of the farm. The family weddings and reunions with Mom and Dad's families. It was a simpler time, but every generation says their generation was simpler. If I could have 5 more minutes with all my loved ones who are no longer here but in my heart and memories, it would be such a great gift.
5 more minutes
All the new friends I have since coming to Bangalore. It am humbled by all of them. All of them are so wonderful. I will not be nostalgic until the end of the week. I still have 6 days before I fly to Mumbai to meet with old and new friends.
It is time to get ready for the taxi ride to the office. Let's see what adventure will be today!